Saturday, August 30, 2014

A nice new watch!

My companion is still super new ha-ha. He has only been out for 3 months. Sometimes stuff like that happens.  I have sent several letters to the mission president saying that he should consider my companion for training after I finish his training. I am not that surprised that he's going to be training now.
 
There are two islands in my mission. Both of them have a large problem with mangkukulam or witches ha-ha. Marinduque is smallish and a super hard area - daw. Mindoro is bigger and the missionary work there is pretty good. I hope I get to go to one of those islands. Yes on the islands there is no McDonalds or any other modern restaurant and I guess the markets suck there as well. Which reminds me. I am super good at buying stuff at the markets here. Veggies, fruit, spices, fish, pork, chicken etc. I always get the best deal even though everyone tries to rip me off. 
 
Oh, and my watch broke this week so I bought a new one. Sent a picture of it!! :)
 
Well love you all lots. Thanks for everything!
 
Elder Nielson   
 My sweet new time piece!!
 My district.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Transfer Day is fast approaching!!

It is true that it is always more fun in the Philippines ha-ha. Mas Masaya sa Philippines. Looks like you guys had a great time at the Vadnais cabin though! ha-ha. I would love to go there someday.
 
Transfer week is coming up and my companion just found out he is going to be training. Meaning there is almost a 100% chance that I am transferred. I am happy but also a little sad. There are a lot of good investigators that I have here and I am really close with two families here. Just cross your fingers that I am going to one of the islands. If I go to the island I will have alot nicer pictures then your pictures of the lake.
 
Dad asked me if I was good at the nun chucks yet. I am not that great yet but maybe by the end of my mission ha-ha. Most of these missionary apartments are just loaded with swords, knifes, nun chucks, tasers etc.. I would feel really bad if someone tried to break into some of these apartments. Everything is legal here :). Ha-ha - just kidding.
 
I really like the quote that Dad sent me from President Monson - "When we treat people merely as they are, they will remain as they are. When we treat them as if they were what they should be, they will become what they should be."
 
Well I did get another baptism on Saturday. It went super good other then I was conducting and I choked super hard. Kind of embarrassing. It is funny. I can teach fully in Tagalog and I understand almost everything that is said to me but I still get nerves when I speak to people sometimes and that is when I really mess up hard. Oh well - that was Saturday - we always move forward.
 
Well, I love you all a lot! Hope you have a great week. 

Elder Nielson
Jesse's friends and family 
 Jesse on his baptism day
Best friends!!??
 

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Some Sweet New Skills!!

Well I have another baptism on Saturday. His name is Jessie. He will be the first baptism I will get as a senior companion. I can't wait for it! It should be super good. Hopefully he will remain active. He is super good and we can't teach him anymore then he knows right now. His brother should get baptized sometime in September which will be super good as well. Actually, there should be a few good baptisms coming up in September but unfortunately I probably will get transferred on August 28th. Dad can probably testify to this. All the good elders spend their missions repairing and rebuilding and planting. While all the bad ones spend there missions harvesting and wrecking areas... Oh well I did have some good successes in this area which is awesome ha-ha. Seven transfers are happening in the one island so I am hoping it is my time to go there ha-ha. Oh well that is still like 3 weeks away.
 
No Dear Elder package yet which is too bad. I sent a cool video for you all haha. It is one of my very cool new skills I have picked up on my mission. 
 
I would love to take you all to the Philippines! It would be a lot of new very different experiences and it would be super fun but maybe not a "lie on the beach for 2 weeks" kind of vacation. Oh and you would all be treated like super stars! Filipino's love white people. You would all feel the most popular you have ever felt in your life haha. I think Dad would love to come to the Philippines. Basketball everyday, new food, and videoke (karaoke with random videos playing in the back ground of the songs). But of course, we would do the resort thing as well. Maybe Tagay Tay or Puerto Galera.
 
Wow I wish I could have been there at the family reunion. It looks like you all had a great time. I can't wait to get to go to a family reunion in 2 years haha.
 
Oh well. Thanks for the email. Love you lots!

Elder Nielson  
Looks like Hawaiian Haystacks to me!!  Let's guess that's what it is!

Some re-enacting maybe?? Don't know!
 

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Enjoy More Fully the Sunlight

So I have been feeling kind of frustrated lately- ha-ha. I was able to baptize Reyna Zerate within my first four weeks here which was super cool and she is super active. Her husband was inactive for fourteen (maybe even seventeen) years and her children were just baptize approximately a couple weeks before I got here. So we visited her kids my first night here and we decided to teach all of them, not just the kids. It makes me wonder why no one else ever tried to even teach the rest of the family. We gave her a baptismal goal date on the first lesson and she accepted. Since that day she and her husband haven't missed a single week of church. She is first counsellor in the primary and her husband Procy is going to get a calling shortly, I am sure. They have been awesome! I wish I could just visit them everyday ha-ha. Now, I said I was frustrated. The reason I said that is because the key indicator numbers of this ward are not very good, for example home teaching is virtually non-existent and the ward has about 80 active members with 360 inactive. Lately it has been hard because our ward mission leader was just made a service missionary and he has to spend four days a week in Manila. One more thing, I kind of had to re-open this area and now I will probably get transferred next transfer just as a big load of all my investigators are starting to want to get baptized.
 
I love the quote from President Hinckley that Dad sent me: "I am an optimist!... My plea is that we stop seeking out the storms and enjoy more fully the sunlight. I am suggesting that as we go through life, we "accentuate the positive"". I have actually been trying to apply that advice in my work lately. This area has a lot of problems, but since I have stopped focusing on those issues and more on what's going good and what I am doing to improve the work, I have found big changes taking place in our ward. Yesterday was the first day that we had over 80 at church in the whole time I have served here. Normally we have about 60 with about 80 active members. So the 86 we got yesterday was awesome!
 
Despite all the problems I still like the ward and the area. The church has only been here for 50 years so there is lot's of time to mature and get better. We should have a baptism coming up in the next two weeks. His name is Jesse and he is 20. He and his brother are actually being sponsored by a member family in Utah and are living in an en-suite of a member here in San Pablo. They got double referred ha-ha. The rest of the up-coming baptisms (6), I won't be around for because their goal dates are after Aug 28 and I will probably transfer out then.
 
Everything else is going just fine ha-ha. It isn't that hot here any more. Lots of clouds with on and off showers all day everyday. Still better then the heat. Which reminds me. Tori looks like she has a nice tan in those pictures you sent. She must be spending some time outside. 
 
Yes, things are different with the new mission president but not that different. 
 
Anyways I hope you have a great week. Well anyways I better go. Love you all lot's!
 
Elder Nielson

Thursday, July 31, 2014

A special letter to the ward!

Thanks for the emails! Sorry I will have to make this one short because I spent all my time emailing the ward. Please spell check it ha-ha! The message I am sending is important to me because it is one of the best things I have learned on my mission.

Everything is cleaned up from Typhoon Glenda, for the most part. The houses here are made to be rebuilt in like 2 days ha-ha. It wasn't too much of a problem. Three members lost their homes which was sad but everything is going good now.

I thought that I missed the last Burst of Color Run :(. That is so great that there is a new committee to take over! I hope Kristy is ready - its a lot of work! I super hope that everything goes great next year so that maybe I can run it again in 2 years ha-ha!

Well, it is great that there will be new missionaries in the Rosemary Ward! That practice thing that I put at the end of my letter to the ward has really helped out the work in the ward that I am serving in. Still no new baptisms here but we should have six coming up. Hopefully I am still here for them. Don't be a hard ward. Work with the missionaries!

Well, thanks for the emails! Love you lots! The following is a letter that I am writing to the ward:


Dear Ward ko,
 
Yes, I am still alive. Yes, I promise I am still working my hardest.
 
Thank you so much for all the support you give me. I want to tell you all that it is a real blessing to have a ward like you back at home. More importantly, I want to thank you for all of your prayers. They do make the difference out here in the field. Actually, one of the big things I have learned out here in the field is how to really truly pray. Like I said , it makes all the difference. Elder Christensen (one of the 7 presidents of the seventy) came out to all of us missionaries and gave a really good workshop on prayer. He told us he didn't really know what he needed to talk about in his  workshop until earlier in the morning when he knelt and had a morning prayer. I believe we can all get to the point where we can receive revelation like that, right on the spot, like Elder Christensen did for us.
 
Sometimes I think we become complacent with our prayers. I know I did, especially while praying in Tagalog. Sometimes prayers sound more like we're ordering a pizza over the phone from Papa John's: "I would like ham, bacon, mushrooms etc." Those are ineffective all together. God gave us two ears and one mouth. There-in lies the first secret to effective prayers.
 
Alma 8:8-10 *Prayer isn't always easy. It should be simple yes but sometimes we need to really labor much in the spirit or wrestle with God ourselves. Sometimes revelation comes easy. Other times it is much harder. When we ask for things and don't get answers we may need to do 1 of 2 things. Luke 11:1-13 is a less known parable in the New Testament, but it applies here. A man whose home a friend came by at midnight could not let his friend go hungry, but he had no bread to spare. The man then proceeded to solve the problem by going and asking his neighbor for bread. His neighbor refused him at first, but because the man was hospitable, had great faith, was righteous, and he persistently continued to ask - he was eventually granted his request. Sometimes God tries to test our faith by with-holding an answer for short periods of time. If our cause is righteous, our heart is sincere, and we ask in faith, we will receive those answers we so greatly crave. The other thing we may be doing wrong is not asking the right questions. If our questions are too broad, we may not receive an answer. Simple specific questions are what we need to be asking. One more thing that has helped me out a lot is to change the question until it feels right.
 
Next, invite the Spirit before you pray. Find a spot in your house that is quiet and personal, read some scriptures, or sing a hymn, then pray.  This advice has worked wonders for me. Sometimes I just feel too tired to really try. I find that this can really give you good motivation.
 
3 Nephi 19:24 *Don't be repetitive or elaborate but be simple and devote your whole heart to the prayer. If we are sincere like the disciples we will be "Filled with desire." If we would ask what our Heavenly Father would give us, our prayers would be perfect and we could recieve all the revelation we need.
 
A simple practice that we can all do is first hold a Family Home Evening about missionary work. Next, discuss in your families all your friends, neighbors, and just people you know that aren't members of the church (this gets the brain really going). Maybe play a game if you've got kids. The one who can write the most names down on a piece of paper in under 2 minutes wins!!! Lastly, hold a family KNEELING prayer (the head of the house should give it) and ask which of these people are ready to receive the Gospel. Sit quietly and really ponder the names. When you get a good feeling, mark with a star beside those names you wrote down earlier and feel are ready. After that JUST DO IT, and plan to contact those names so you can invite to church, FHE, activities, or to meet with the missionaries. I use this method a lot out in the field and it really works well. I know that missionary work is hard but I also know that this church is true. I know all of you know the same thing. God puts real people in our groups of friends that are ready for the gospel on purpose. Again, thank you all for your support and prayers. I really love this work and I know it is what I am suppose to be doing. 

Elder Nielson